Dude. YOu are way WAY too hard on yourself! :) Of course its not!
I want to be the one who's taken care of. I want someone to notice that I have a headache when I press my fingers into my forehead. I want someone to notice that my socks are on the floor. I want to have someone to curl up on when I crawl into bed.
Only crazy outliers like me don't really want those things due to horrible and irrational fears of any kind of attachment and committment and even I want them sometimes. Like, seriously. If people didnt want those things? No one would EVER date, get married, have affairs, etc.
And writing fic that lets you imagine that kind of stuff? Totally awesome. (Also, honest. Lets face it, 99% of fic is just teh writer's excuse to imagine themselves in those situations. At least you understand that there is apart of you that wants these things and thus comes the desire to write about it :)
Also, I like well written fluff!fic, and I'm selfish, so write it so I can read it!! :P
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Date: 2009-03-26 05:14 pm (UTC)Dude. YOu are way WAY too hard on yourself! :) Of course its not!
I want to be the one who's taken care of. I want someone to notice that I have a headache when I press my fingers into my forehead. I want someone to notice that my socks are on the floor. I want to have someone to curl up on when I crawl into bed.
Only crazy outliers like me don't really want those things
due to horrible and irrational fears of any kind of attachment and committmentand even I want them sometimes. Like, seriously. If people didnt want those things? No one would EVER date, get married, have affairs, etc.And writing fic that lets you imagine that kind of stuff? Totally awesome. (Also, honest. Lets face it, 99% of fic is just teh writer's excuse to imagine themselves in those situations. At least you understand that there is apart of you that wants these things and thus comes the desire to write about it :)
Also, I like well written fluff!fic, and I'm selfish, so write it so I can read it!! :P